Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy thanksgiving...


Greetings, I want to take this time to say “thank you” to everyone who protects us. Police officers, fire fighters, EMT”s, and the military. Each one of you, on the front lines or working support, I couldn’t have the freedom I do without you being there ready to risk everything for me.

This has been a year of major changes for me and my entire family. Due to his age and medical needs, in just a week our Dad will be moving to assisted living. It’s been four years since Mom passed and I moved back home to take care of Dad. A little frustrating at times, but more so are the great memories of being here with him and watching his face light up each day.

Now, as Dad and I both move we say good-by to our family home of 48 years. We have been lead by God in each step and the sale of the house has gone by without a single problem. So today is our last thanksgiving in this home, it hurts, and is a little sad, but my family and friends will always be together, and for that I can’t thank God enough.

If God hasn’t given me enough, in just a few short days my daughter Beck is due to give birth to my grandson. How can I say thank you for all I have (and will) receive? I guess the best way is….Thank you…and Happy Thanksgiving…..Charlie

Thursday, November 5, 2009

PROJECT BLUE LIGHT

During this upcoming Christmas season juoin me and others who recognize the sacrifices that poloice officers give on a daily basis and especially those who gave the ultimate by being killed in the line of duty.

Join us in PROJECT BLUE LIGHT.

All you have to do is place a single blue light in your window. If you want to really be supportive be creative about how you'll decorate your christmas tree and your house.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Tribute to a COP...


At any given time, you are the most needed,
yet the most unwanted.

You are able to remain focused at all times.

You deal with the worse in our society, yet showing your best.

Be infallible making split second decisions, others will take
months to evaluate.

You settle differences between people so that the both believe
they have won.

You have the ability to defeat any threat against you.

And hold all your dreams in the essence of your badge.

You are all of these things, and more. God chose you to be
His guardian angel on earth. It’s not easy, but the rewards here,
and the ones you store up in heaven are wonderful.

Stay safe out there, you are all in our prayers…Charlie

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

SPARK!

Spark:
1. An incandescent particle, especially:
a. One thrown off from a burning substance.
b. One resulting from friction.
c. One remaining in an otherwise extinguished fire; an ember.
2. A glistening particle, as of metal.
3.
a. A flash of light, especially a flash produced by electric discharge.
b. A short pulse or flow of electric current.

In a world of darkness, you as a public safety officer are a spark! You are a bright spot in the darkness. You are the incandescent particle for whom others look to for guidance.

When you go out on the job, are you a glistening particle or a short fizzle? Keep that spark alive by way of the very one who gave it to you. Pray daily that your spark will grow and become contagious.

I'm always amazed how one officer with the spark can ignite an entire shift and often an entire community.

Glow brightly and with pride.

Monday, September 7, 2009

Don't Back Down

I'm always surprised where God finds a way to get a message through. A number of years ago, I was a long way from home in a hotel room working on a critical issue. As I was listening to my Ipod, the Darrell Worley song "I Will Hold My Ground" came on. As I listened to this secular country song, I realized that with God's help, I can hold my ground. If you are open to God's word you will be amazed where you will hear, see or read it. Here's the lyrics I heard that night.

(Darryl Worley/Frank Rogers)

I have never had an easy life
But I'm not complaining
It has taught me how to stand and fight
For what I believe in
I guess that's just how I was raised
I find it hard to walk away

I will not back down
When you push me to the wall
Expecting me to fall
I will not give in
I am not afraid to fight
For what I know is right
I can only take so much
And when I've had enough
It's not in my blood to just lay down
I will hold my ground

I try my best to get through every day
Without confrontation
Stayin' out of everybody's way
But then on occasion
Somebody steps across the line
And it's not too long before they find

I will not back down
When you push me to the wall
Expecting me to fall
I will not give in
I am not afraid to fight
For what I know is right
I can only take so much
And when I've had enough
It's not in my blood to just lay down
I will hold my ground

I will not back down
When you push me to the wall
Expecting me to fall
I will not give in
I am not afraid to fight
For what I know is right
I can only take so much
And when I've had enough
It's not in my blood to just lay down
I will hold my ground

No it's not in my blood to just lay down
I will hold my ground
Yeah I will hold my ground
I will hold my ground
I will hold my ground
I will hold my ground

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Things Must Change

A lot of my stress comes from the frustration in the lack of real change to save the lives of kids. I posted the link outlining my concerns on my website here. Part of stress is compounded by the inability of to speak your mind as a police officer. From personal experience getting vocal and telling the truth can potentially cost your security, family heartache and public scrutiny. Having gone through this I can tell you it is rough.

Find an outlet, work toward improving and take the chances to make the difference; and pray for guidance to know what you should do.

Just know that what you do makes a difference. There are people alive because of you. You represent the absolute value of life. Your profession is noble and honorable. Find strength in knowing you do make a difference.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

The Speeding Ticket

I have seen this before. I'm not sure if it's true or not but I think it speaks volumes about what you do each day and the burdens you often carry.


The Speeding Ticket:

Jack took a long look at his speedometer before slowing down: 73 in a 55 zone.
Fourth time in as many months. How could a guy get caught so often?

When his car had slowed to 10 miles an hour, Jack pulled over, but only partially.
Let the cop worry about the potential traffic hazard. Maybe some other car will tweak his backside with a mirror. The cop was stepping out of his car, the big pad in hand.


Bob? Bob from Church? Jack sunk farther into his trench coat. This was worse than the coming ticket. A cop catching a guy from his own church A guy who happened to be a little eager to get home after a long day at the office. A guy he was about to play golf with tomorrow.

Jumping out of the car, he approached a man he saw every Sunday,a man he'd never seen in uniform. 'Hi, Bob. Fancy meeting you like this.' 'Hello, Jack.' No smile.

'Guess you caught me red-handed in a rush to see my wife and kids.' 'Yeah, I guess.' Bob seemed uncertain. Good.

'I've seen some long days at the office lately. I'm afraid I bent the rules a bit -just this once.' Jack toed at a pebble on the pavement. 'Diane said something about roast beef and potatoes tonight. Know what I mean?' 'I know what you mean.

I also know that you have a reputation in our precinct ' Ouch..
This was not going in the right direction. Time to change tactics. 'What'd you clock me at?' Seventy. Would you sit back in your car please?'

'Now wait a minute here, Bob. I checked as soon as I saw you. I was barely nudging 65.' The lie seemed to come easier with every ticket.

Please, Jack, in the car'

Flustered, Jack hunched himself through the still-open door. Slamming it shut, he stared at the dashboard. He was in no rush to open the window.

The minutes ticked by. Bob scribbled away on the pad.

Why hadn't he asked for a driver's license? Whatever the reason, it would be a month of Sundays before Jack ever sat near this cop again. A tap on the door jerked his head to the left. There was Bob, a folded paper in hand Jack rolled down the window a mere two inches, just enough room for Bob to pass him the slip.

'Thanks.'

Jack could not quite keep the sneer out of his voice. Bob returned to his police car without a word. Jack watched his retreat in the mirror. Jack unfolded the sheet of paper. How much was this one going to cost? Wait a minute. What was this? Some kind of joke?

Certainly not a ticket. Jack began to read:
'Dear Jack, Once upon a time I had a daughter. She was six when killed by a car.
You guessed it - a speeding driver. A fine and three months in jail, and the man was free. Free to hug his daughters, all three of them. I only had one, and I'm going to have to wait until Heaven before I can ever hug her again.

A thousand times I've tried to forgive that man A thousand times I thought I had.
Maybe I did, but I need to do it again. Even now. Pray for me. And be careful, Jack,
my son is all I have left.'

'Bob'

Jack turned around in time to see Bob's car pull away and head down the road. Jack watched until it disappeared. A full 15 minutes later, he too, pulled away and drove slowly home, praying for forgiveness and hugging a surprised wife and kids when he arrived.

Life is precious.

Handle with care. Drive safely and carefully. Remember, cars are not the only things
recalled by their maker.